Know what can and can't work for you

If i hadn't learnt by experience then this time i would have done the same mistake again. Yes at that time it was hard but as every wise person knows its the experiences that we carry along after an event / circumstance that matters and i intend to use the past experiences to shield me from committing the same mistake, not really twice because i might have gone through that more than once but from doing the same mistake this time and also in future.

Last Sunday i had started watching the movie 'he is not that into you' and stopped watching i think 20 minutes into the movie. I was bored all those 'if he is not calling, if he is not marrying you, if he is saying this, if he is........' am sure there are a lot more 'ifs' i could have met with had i watched the whole movie. And the 'self made' relationship experts trying to read, analyse and recommend solutions for all the actions.

My question is, since when did dating become such a hard subject? harder than my statistics units in undergraduate. I don't deny that yes it difficult to deal with another human being, at times i even get tired with myself and even annoyed at the things i do to me so yes i would not expect anyone to find me easy to deal with and vice versa.
But what happened to trying to understand each other, open communication, a simple this can or can't work for me but we can try this and that and the rest of the tips that we all have come across in the deposits of knowledge.

Anyways, all am trying to say is that there is some level of crap we all can handle and if you think you have met that one person whose crap you can attempt to live with and that you genuinely like each other. Simply go for it, do what you can when you can for you will simply succeed or fail. Not everyone will appreciate a girl who takes initiative not everyone will appreciate one who takes a back seat either, a prettier face will always exist a more stylish one is around the corner but the world has abundance for all. All in all remember to carry the lessons learnt and don't stay down. Finally as they say, if it isn't a natural progression, then leave it....Absolutely no point of forcing it.